Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Tell It Like It Is

Sunday evening Mackinsie and I were making plans for Thursday. At some point I said that I would put on my "thinking cap" about that. She responded, "Grandma, I don't think that you have a thinking cap anymore". LOVE IT! I always tell her it's a good thing I have her. She's the "smart and beautiful one".

I need to record this story:

Mackensie has a really deep understanding of death. Awhile ago we were having one of our classic breakfast conversations. We were talking about our bodies and spirits being two different things. The body is where our spirit lives while on earth. She ask me, "Grandma, do you think our spirits knew each other in heaven?". Oh, I believe we did, I told her. "That's it! I knew it! I think our spirits are twins. WE ARE TWINS! We like the same things, what's your favorite color? Purple, I respond. Mine to, she says. What's your favorite food? Chocolate, I respond. Mine to, she says. We play question and answer for a few minutes. Then I suggested that we come up with names that rhyme. She wanted to keep Mackensie - so my twin name is Madaline.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Thoughts from Mackensie

So, I have developed a bad habit lately of talking with my mouth full of food, or eating to fast. Who knows why! My lip is really taking a beating. Today Mackensie and I were driving and eating a bag of Gold Fish (that was lunch!). I bit my lip, talking with food in my mouth. I expressed myself to Mackensie and showed her my lip.

She thought for a moment and then said, "Grandma, you need to start doing lady practice." I ask what that meant. "It's where you learn not to talk with food in your mouth and eat like a lady." Where did you learn that, I ask. "On ICarly. Sam (a girl) wanted a boyfriend, so ICarly taught her how to be lady like. Lady Practice, I just made that up myself right now."

Apparently TV does have value!!!! I love that little girl. Another GREAT THURSDAY!

Friday, April 17, 2009

I LOVE SPRING!




Yesterday was a perfect spring day! We went outside to play and Mackensie discovered that she is now tall enough to get on the swing and the glider by herself! Grace, Peyton and Angie came over and while Angie and I visited in the swing the girls rode the glider and visited. After they left I was pushing Mackensie on the swing and all of a sudden she yelled out as loud as she could
"I LOVE SPRING!!!!" Me to my sweet angel, me to!

Austin News

For those of you that don't know, Austin is 11 almost 12. He is in the sixth grade and getting nervous about junior high. Ryan and Valerie got an email from his principle this week telling them that he had nominated Austin for National Junior Leadership! If he wins this honor he will go to on a Washington DC trip. He was full of compliments about my smart and compassionate grandson! He shows great leadership qualities, when he finishes his work he loves to walk around and help others. His teacher does appreciate that! He reads over 12th grade level and they have him doing advanced math. He may not always make the right choice at home (what 11 year does?), but he is showing greatness at school. His Dad was really proud of him. He still can't beat his Dad at basketball, but give him another year and he'll probably be taller than him! I love you Austin and couldn't be prouder!

Monday, March 23, 2009

Mackensie Fun

Mackensie and I were saying our goodbyes, we exchanged the original I love to the Moon and back, back and forth we went. Then I said, "I love you to Minnesota, stop and find Dean, and back again". She looked at me and said, "Can I go with you? I want to see Uncle Dean". !!!!

At Preschool they have what they call your special day. That means you get to bring show and tell and invite someone to snack with you. Her last one was last Monday. I talked with her on the telephone Tuesday for something else and ask her how her special day went. She told me that I needed to talk to Mommy about that. So Valerie told me that she had stood up and "read" her book to everyone. Thursday I made a comment about how proud I was of her etc etc. She looked at me and said, "Grandma, we don't have to talk about that anymore. It's just the way I am now." I asked her if it was OK for me to still tell her that I'm proud of her? She answered, "Yes, and I will tell you Thank You". So, being brave is just who she is now! She also told me she doesn't like the boys anymore, except for Andrew. She has made girl friends now, even goes to Little Gym again with one of them, Hannah. Yes, the one who told her she didn't want to play with her months ago. I've said it before and I'll say it again, I LOVE THAT LITTLE BRAVE RICKS GIRL!!!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

More Comfort Foods

turkey thigh supper
3 medium red potatoes, cut into chunks
1/2 pound fresh baby carrots
2 medium onions, cut into chunks
4 turkey thighs, skin removed
1 can ( 10 3/4 ounces) condensed tomato soup, undiluted
1/3 cup water
1 teaspoon minced garlic
1 teaspoon Italian seasoning
1/2 to 1 teaspoon salt

In a 5-qt slow cooker, layer the potatoes, carrots and onions. Top with turkey. Combine the soup, water, garlic, Italian seasoning and salt; pour over turkey. Cover and cook on high for 7-8 hours or until a meat thermometer reads 180 degrees and vegetables are tender. yield: 4 servings

You can substitute chicken breasts for the turkey or honey-flavored barbecue sauce for the soup mixture.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Mackensie Funny

Last Thursday night, I was sitting in the family room visiting with Valerie, when Mackensie came in and stood in front of me. She said, "Grandma, I feel sorry for you". I ask her why? "Because you are missing out on all the fun, since you are not playing with me". !!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

oh so easy comfort foods

I recently picked up a magazine with slow cooker and casserole receipes. I thought I would share one with you every now and then. This one sounded really good. Mom, Grandma Ricks use to make Salmon Loaf, I loved it. Please let me know if you try it and how it is.

salmon loaf
2 eggs lightly beaten
2 cups seasoned stuffing croutons
1 cup chicken broth
1 cup grated Parmesan chees
1/4 teaspoon ground mustard
1 can (14-3/4 ounces) salmon, drained, bones and skin removed

In a bowl, combine the first five ingredients. Add salmon and mix well. Transfer to a 3 sq. slow cooker coated with cooking spray. Gently shape mixture into a loaf. Cover and cook on low for 4-6 hours or until a meat thermometer reads 160 degrees. Yield: 6 servings

Tip in the magazine: some people like to remove the bones from canned salmon, but they are edible and can add calcium to your diet. If you don't like the texture, mash the drained salmon in a bowl with the back of a spoon. The bones will disappear in seconds.

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Read, Learn, Grow

I have a friend that is studying in Israel. Her blog is linked to mine as "Shan's Story". Her writings are very interesting. I am looking forward to learning more about this holy place. I challenge each of you to read her writings and we can all learn together. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

SO THIS IS LOVE

Mackensie funny: She leans into me and whispers, "Grandma, I don't think I'm going to have children". Inside I'm shocked and disappointed, all she's ever talked about is being a momma. So I ask her why? She says, "Well, you know that I'm going to marry Daddy, and Daddy can only have children with Momma". I agree with her but mention that she might find someone she loves when she gets older. She says, "No I won't. Grandma, you know I love my Daddy very, very, very, very, very. very much". You can't argue with that!

She has been a little under the weather lately. Cough and cold time. No one hates their child to be sick, but you sure do love all the snuggle time! She loves to lay on her daddy on the couch and watch TV. Daddy will even watch cartoons with you if you're sick!

Monday, December 22, 2008

Snow Day Fun





What's more fun than snow? Having your Daddy home to play with you in it!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Yes, Mackensie, Santa doesn't bite!


No problems this year! What a difference a year makes. Austin didn't really want to sit on Santa's lap, he is 11 after all. But he'll do just about anything for his little sister. Mackensie had no fear this year, she really has turned into a "brave Ricks girl". Happy Holidays everyone.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

GOOD THOUGHTS

This should probably be taped to your bathroom mirror where one could read it every day.

You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. You are special and unique.
8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.
10. When you think the world has turned its back on you take another look.
11. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Christmas Fun

Every year I give my grandchildren an ornament. It's a tradition my mother started with her grandchildren. I decided this year to make them Christmas pillow cases. So, on Thursday I had wrapped them and put them under my tree. Mackensie is sooooo into it this year and was really curious about the gifts. She ask me, " Grandma did you get Austin the same thing you got me?" I told her yes. About 5 minutes later she said, "How about you tell me what you got Austin, I promise not to tell him". She also ask her Daddy if he knew where Mama was hiding the presents, he told her yes. She whispered to him, "why don't you tell me and I promise I won't tell Mama you told me". She cracks me up! Don't know what I'd do without her, the older she gets the more precious the time. As you can tell from her picture, she isn't a baby any more.

This year I am increasingly grateful for my family. No gifts are necessary, just spending time together seems to bring us even more happiness. I wish the same for all of you. Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Monday, November 24, 2008

LOOK! NO TEETH




Here's my angel with her bottom teeth missing! She lost her second one last Friday while eating dinner. She was very happy that she didn't swallow it!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

BEST STORY EVER

ONE OF THE BEST STORIES I'VE EVER HEARD! As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he did not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big 'F' at the top of his papers. At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise. Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, 'Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners... He is a joy to be around..' His second grade teacher wrote, 'Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle.' His third grade teacher wrote, 'His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest, and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken.' Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, 'Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class.' By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when sh e found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, 'Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to.' After the children left, she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despi te her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her 'teacher's pets..' A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in life. Four years after tha t, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honours. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favourite teacher he had ever had in his whole life. Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favourite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer.... The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD. The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom. Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together. They hugged eac h other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, 'Thank y ou Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference.' Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, 'Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you.' (For you that don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Doctor at Iowa Methodist in Des Moines that has the Stoddard Cancer Wing.) Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along. I love this story so very m uch, I cry every time I read it. Just try to make a difference in someone's life today? tomorrow? just 'do it'. Random acts of kindness, I think they call it! 'Believe in Angels, then return the favor'

Saturday, November 8, 2008

FALL RECEIPE

Pumpkin Spice Cream Cheese Spread


4 oz cream cheese softened
3 tablespoons brown sugar
2 tablespoons pure maple syrup
1/4 cup canned pumpkin
1/2 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract


Beat cream cheese, sugar and syrup til creamy. Add pumpkin, spices and vanila and beat til smooth. Refrigerate for at least an hour. Enjoy!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

END OF A FUN AFTERNOON


We have so much fun hanging out with the McLaughlin girls! Mackensie loves Grace and Peyton and I have to say I love Angie. We have the best discussions and I really look forward to being with her. After dancing today the girls wanted to watch a video. This is the three of them laying on the floor together. AH THE QUIET!

MACKENSIE

So today was sooo fun! I am still amazed at how smart Mackensie is. I mentioned to her that we have a new president. She said, "I know, his name is Senator Barack Obama. I'm so glad he won I wanted to vote for him." I ask her how she knew that, did she learn it at school. She said no, she saw it on the news. She was just really excited about it. Later at lunch we started talking about Thanksgiving and what she is grateful for. Then we started talking about being thankful that we live in America. I was telling her about other countries and how women and children are treated. She really listens and has so many questions. After we talked for awhile she said to me that she really was thankful that she lives in the United States of America. I just love her open mind!

Another story: She wanted me to do scissor jumps and the splits with her. I told her I was just to old to do that. I reminded her that I was 52 years old. She said OK I didn't have to do it - and that when she is seven and old, she won't do it either!

Monday, November 3, 2008

INTERESTING ARTICLE FROM FRONTDOOR.COM

Mortgage Rescue: Where McCain, Obama Stand
Senators both offer proposals to let homeowners keep what they have
By Holden Lewis, bankrate.com Published: 10/28/2008
The politics of housing have changed in four years.
In 2004, George W. Bush campaigned on a platform of increasing homeownership, especially among minorities. He wanted the government to insure zero-down payment mortgages. "In changing times, ownership can bring stability to your lives," Bush told a rally in Michigan.
It turns out that homeownership brought instability to the lives of people who bought houses when they weren't ready. Perhaps as a result, Bush's replacement isn't running on a platform of extending homeownership. Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., and Sen. Barack Obama, D-Ill., both offer proposals to let homeowners keep what they have. They have modest goals, born of the bitter experience of the mortgage meltdown.
McCain and Obama agree on the broad outlines of housing policy, and disagree on some particulars.
Both major-party candidates voted for the $700 billion bailout.
McCain said in the second debate that he prefers to call it a "rescue" instead of a "bailout." "So this rescue package means that we will stabilize markets, we will shore up these institutions," McCain said.
Obama explained that he voted for the bailout because, otherwise, frozen credit markets "could end up having an adverse effect on everybody," including mass layoffs.
Both major-party candidates say the government should reduce foreclosures by buying distressed mortgages from lenders and allowing homeowners to refinance into government-insured loans.
Obama has said that many Americans bear part of the responsibility for the mortgage meltdown. "Part of the reason this crisis occurred, if we're honest with ourselves, is that everyone was living beyond their means -- from Wall Street to Washington to even some on Main Street," he said in early October.
McCain said something similar in March: "It is not the duty of government to bail out and reward those who act irresponsibly, whether they are big banks or small borrowers."
Although McCain and Obama agree that the government should buy distressed mortgages, they disagree on who should lose money on the deal.
The Great Bailout gives the Treasury $700 billion and a lot of leeway on how to spend it. The government is giving money to banks in exchange for an ownership stake that can be sold to investors later, and the government can buy distressed mortgage-backed securities. The Treasury has another, more direct option: It can buy individual mortgages on which the borrowers have defaulted. That's different from buying mortgage-backed securities.
By buying bad mortgages, the government would allow homeowners to refinance their loans for smaller amounts that reflect the reduced values of their homes. Under such a plan, someone has to take a financial loss -- lenders, the government, or homeowners. The candidates disagree on who should take that loss.
McCain says that, in cases where homeowners were responsible enough to make down payments, the government should eat the loss.
The Treasury would pay full price to the investors who own the loans. Under this plan, the homeowner would refinance for a reduced loan amount. The government would accept a loan payoff for that reduced amount, so the government would take the loss. The plan could aid up to 11 million homeowners, McCain says.
McCain compared his proposal to the federal government's Home Owners Loan Corp., which was founded in 1933, at the dawn of Franklin Roosevelt's administration. In those days, most mortgages were interest-only balloon loans that came due after three to five years. Borrowers expected to refinance their loans before they expired.
Congress addressed the problem in 1933 by forming the HOLC. According to the book "History and Policies of the Home Owners' Loan Corporation," by Lowell C. Harriss, the federal government eventually bought one-fifth of the nation's mortgages. About half of the HOLC's borrowers ended up in foreclosure. Still, the program is considered a success. The HOLC came to an end in 1951, at a slight profit to the government.
Obama says he favors a structure like the new Hope for Homeowners program, in which lenders take the loss.
Hope for Homeowners is for delinquent borrowers who owe more than their houses are worth. Under the program, these homeowners get government-insured loans for 90 percent of the home's diminished value. The original lender loses the difference between the amount of the original loan and the amount of the new loan. The program is optional, and presumably lenders will reject deals in which foreclosure would be less of a money-loser.
Distributed by Scripps Howard News Service, www.scrippsnews.com.